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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Davros wrote: > > I know Ive said this before, but I am bored as well as unimaginitive. The > worst > > part about being shy is not being able to get laid. Seeing beautiful women > all > > the time who I want to have sex with yet being divided by an invisible > wall > > that I cannot penetrate. Especially on the train, women of all ages, > shapes and > > sizes, usually dressed up real nice for work. My imagination runs wild > with all > > the things I want to do with them. > > It doesn’t help to be as good looking as I am either. Women can be > attracted to > > me at first only to find out I am a freak. Life sucks. > I think the worst thing for me is not having someone to share the good times > with. > The shitty times I can handle, but when things are going well, that’s when I > want people in my life. > ———–== Posted via Newsfeed.Com – Uncensored Usenet News ==———- >    http://www.newsfeed.com       The #1 Newsgroup Service in the World! > —–= Over 100,000 Newsgroups – Unlimited Fast Downloads – 19 Servers =—–

I’d say the worst part is having the blood circulation in my legs so unhealthy that they hurt for 12 hours after two hours of walking because most of the time I don’t feel free to walk around in public at all, and when I do, I have to take elaborate alternate routes down every street and through every store just to avoid the possibility of eye contact or passing within 4 feet of another person.  Or maybe it’s knowing that insecurity is going to dictate my every job choice for the rest of my life. —– Happiness is overrated.

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"Semi-Detached" <fullmetalgro…@aol.com> wrote in message

news:20020723111743.00215.00000283@mb-fg.aol.com… > I know Ive said this before, but I am bored as well as unimaginitive. The worst > part about being shy is not being able to get laid.

No it’s not. That’s what prostitutes are for. The worst part of being shy is being unloved and lonely all the time.

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Davros <cd…@iinet.net.au> wrote: > I think the worst thing for me is not having someone to share the good times > with. > The shitty times I can handle, but when things are going well, that’s when I > want people in my life.

Really?  I find the opposite is true.  I’m personally going through the absolute lowest point in my life right now, and I find the worst thing is having *no one at all* to lean on.

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"Wry Bread" <wrybr…@nwlink.REMOVEcom> wrote in message

news:ujvbrc8us7vea5@corp.supernews.com… > Davros <cd…@iinet.net.au> wrote: > > I think the worst thing for me is not having someone to share the good > times > > with. > > The shitty times I can handle, but when things are going well, that’s when > I > > want people in my life. > Really?  I find the opposite is true.  I’m personally going through the > absolute lowest point in my life right now, and I find the worst thing is > having *no one at all* to lean on.

I’m sorry to hear that. I hope things improve for you soon. When I am down I do not feel like being around people. I feel like lashing out, so it is best to be by myself usually. When I am feeling good, or good things happen, I want to be around people. When there is no one around it is usually okay for a while, but sometimes it really frustrates me. Last year I had a couple of chunks cut out of my head to be tested for skin cancer. At the same time I was undergoing tests for diabetes. I was only a little concerned as skin cancer has a good success rate, and lots of people live with diabetes, but I didn’t really want either problem. When both results came in negative (I found out both the same day), I just wanted to go out and celebrate with someone. At the time, there was no one available, and that sucked much worse than the thoughts of having those conditions. ———–== Posted via Newsfeed.Com – Uncensored Usenet News ==———-    http://www.newsfeed.com       The #1 Newsgroup Service in the World! —–= Over 100,000 Newsgroups – Unlimited Fast Downloads – 19 Servers =—–

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"Davros" <cd…@iinet.net.au> wrote in message

news:3d3ff538_3@corp-goliath.newsgroups.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> "Wry Bread" <wrybr…@nwlink.REMOVEcom> wrote in message > news:ujvbrc8us7vea5@corp.supernews.com… > > Davros <cd…@iinet.net.au> wrote: > > > I think the worst thing for me is not having someone to share the good > > times > > > with. > > > The shitty times I can handle, but when things are going well, that’s > when > > I > > > want people in my life. > > Really?  I find the opposite is true.  I’m personally going through the > > absolute lowest point in my life right now, and I find the worst thing is > > having *no one at all* to lean on. > I’m sorry to hear that. I hope things improve for you soon. > When I am down I do not feel like being around people. I feel like lashing > out, so it is best to be by myself usually. > When I am feeling good, or good things happen, I want to be around people. > When there is no one around it is usually okay for a while, but sometimes it > really frustrates me. > Last year I had a couple of chunks cut out of my head to be tested for skin > cancer. > At the same time I was undergoing tests for diabetes. > I was only a little concerned as skin cancer has a good success rate, and > lots of people live with diabetes, but I didn’t really want either problem. > When both results came in negative (I found out both the same day), I just > wanted to go out and celebrate with someone. > At the time, there was no one available, and that sucked much worse than the > thoughts of having those conditions.

I know what you mean Davros..

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Davros <cd…@iinet.net.au> wrote: > At the time, there was no one available, and that sucked much worse than the > thoughts of having those conditions.

What about the thought of having those conditions and knowing that you never will have the chance of having the life you want? Be grateful.

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"Wry Bread" <wrybr…@nwlink.REMOVEcom> wrote in message

news:uk22pn47em9704@corp.supernews.com… > Davros <cd…@iinet.net.au> wrote: > > At the time, there was no one available, and that sucked much worse than > the > > thoughts of having those conditions. > What about the thought of having those conditions and knowing that you never > will have the chance of having the life you want? > Be grateful.

I’m well aware that there are plenty of people in the world who would swap having shyness for some of the things I have. I don’t forget that, and I appreciate that I am fortunate in many ways compared with a lot of other people. That doesn’t mean that I don’t want to share my life with others though. That is just part of human nature. ———–== Posted via Newsfeed.Com – Uncensored Usenet News ==———-    http://www.newsfeed.com       The #1 Newsgroup Service in the World! —–= Over 100,000 Newsgroups – Unlimited Fast Downloads – 19 Servers =—–

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I know Ive said this before, but I am bored as well as unimaginitive. The worst part about being shy is not being able to get laid. Seeing beautiful women all the time who I want to have sex with yet being divided by an invisible wall that I cannot penetrate. Especially on the train, women of all ages, shapes and sizes, usually dressed up real nice for work. My imagination runs wild with all the things I want to do with them. It doesn’t help to be as good looking as I am either. Women can be attracted to me at first only to find out I am a freak. Life sucks.

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Yeah, life is touched.  Although, I share your sentiment about not being able to have sex, I don’t think that’s the worst part about being shy.  To me, it’s far more painful to go through life without having the fulfillment of relationship with the opposite sex, b/c of the shyness.  It just hurts and is depressing at times.  Life doesn’t suck, but it’s just difficult. Keep pushing on through, that’s what I intend to do. Joseph "Semi-Detached" <fullmetalgro…@aol.com> wrote in message

news:20020723111743.00215.00000283@mb-fg.aol.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> I know Ive said this before, but I am bored as well as unimaginitive. The worst > part about being shy is not being able to get laid. Seeing beautiful women all > the time who I want to have sex with yet being divided by an invisible wall > that I cannot penetrate. Especially on the train, women of all ages, shapes and > sizes, usually dressed up real nice for work. My imagination runs wild with all > the things I want to do with them. > It doesn’t help to be as good looking as I am either. Women can be attracted to > me at first only to find out I am a freak. Life sucks.

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> I know Ive said this before, but I am bored as well as unimaginitive. The worst > part about being shy is not being able to get laid. Seeing beautiful women all > the time who I want to have sex with yet being divided by an invisible wall > that I cannot penetrate. Especially on the train, women of all ages, shapes and > sizes, usually dressed up real nice for work. My imagination runs wild with all > the things I want to do with them. > It doesn’t help to be as good looking as I am either. Women can be attracted to > me at first only to find out I am a freak. Life sucks.

I think the worst thing for me is not having someone to share the good times with. The shitty times I can handle, but when things are going well, that’s when I want people in my life. ———–== Posted via Newsfeed.Com – Uncensored Usenet News ==———-    http://www.newsfeed.com       The #1 Newsgroup Service in the World! —–= Over 100,000 Newsgroups – Unlimited Fast Downloads – 19 Servers =—–

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