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OT:Bonus Question of the day…. 08/31/07

admin — Fri, 31 Aug 2007 00:00:00 +0000

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:: With any luck, pending cancer treatment, ::I’ll be there in a couple of months. ((((((((((Kili)))))))))) Jackie ~*~~*~When you find yourself the victim of other people’s bitterness, ignorance, smallness or insecurities; remember, things could be worse. You could be them~*~ — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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kilikini schreef: 08/31/07: Today’s question is being brought to you by our very own mystery poster If you were given a free one week vacation to a place of your choice, where would you choose to go? Back to Hawaii. I miss my island. With any luck, pending cancer treatment, I’ll be there in a couple of months. Yeah, well, that’s if my friends can pay for it. kili

Well, hellooooooo! Good to see your name on my screen. I understand that you will have an appointment next Monday (?) to have the tumor that returned treated. I wish you lots and lots of strength and good luck. Hopefully this time they will have the thing licked forever (is this English?) Philip — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – kilikini schreef: 08/31/07: Today’s question is being brought to you by our very own mystery poster If you were given a free one week vacation to a place of your choice, where would you choose to go? Back to Hawaii. I miss my island. With any luck, pending cancer treatment, I’ll be there in a couple of months. Yeah, well, that’s if my friends can pay for it. kili Well, hellooooooo! Good to see your name on my screen. I understand that you will have an appointment next Monday (?) to have the tumor that returned treated. I wish you lots and lots of strength and good luck. Hopefully this time they will have the thing licked forever (is this English?) Philip

Yes, it’s English. :~) And very good English, too! Yes, my appointment is next Monday. Wish me luck! kili — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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kilikini schreef: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – kilikini schreef: 08/31/07: Today’s question is being brought to you by our very own mystery poster If you were given a free one week vacation to a place of your choice, where would you choose to go? Back to Hawaii. I miss my island. With any luck, pending cancer treatment, I’ll be there in a couple of months. Yeah, well, that’s if my friends can pay for it. kili Well, hellooooooo! Good to see your name on my screen. I understand that you will have an appointment next Monday (?) to have the tumor that returned treated. I wish you lots and lots of strength and good luck. Hopefully this time they will have the thing licked forever (is this English?) Philip Yes, it’s English. :~) And very good English, too! Yes, my appointment is next Monday. Wish me luck! kili

Oh, I do, I do, you can count on that. And please keep us posted. I know everyone here is rooting for you. Philip — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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I wish you the very best, Kili. Please let us know how it went. {{{{{Kili}}}}} Love, Di — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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I will, thanks, Di. My brother’s coming down for my appt. and before everyone jumps and says "great!", let me tell you that he’s not all there. I haven’t seen him in a few years, but my mom and my sister warned me that he’s not quite right. I’m hoping that my husband and my brother don’t kill each other. So, in addition to my appointment, I have this to worry about too. Yay. It’s going to be an interesting week, let me tell ya. kili — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – kilikini schreef: 08/31/07: Today’s question is being brought to you by our very own mystery poster If you were given a free one week vacation to a place of your choice, where would you choose to go? Back to Hawaii. I miss my island. With any luck, pending cancer treatment, I’ll be there in a couple of months. Yeah, well, that’s if my friends can pay for it. kili Well, hellooooooo! Good to see your name on my screen. I understand that you will have an appointment next Monday (?) to have the tumor that returned treated. I wish you lots and lots of strength and good luck. Hopefully this time they will have the thing licked forever (is this English?) Philip Yes, it’s English. :~) And very good English, too! Yes, my appointment is next Monday. Wish me luck! kili I wish you the very best, Kili. Please let us know how it went. {{{{{Kili}}}}} Love, Di I will, thanks, Di. My brother’s coming down for my appt. and before everyone jumps and says "great!", let me tell you that he’s not all there. I haven’t seen him in a few years, but my mom and my sister warned me that he’s not quite right. I’m hoping that my husband and my brother don’t kill each other. So, in addition to my appointment, I have this to worry about too. Yay. It’s going to be an interesting week, let me tell ya. kili

Oh that’s such a shame, Kili. I hope everything works out okay. You poor thing! {{{{{Kili}}}}} Love, Di — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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08/31/07: Today’s question is being brought to you by our very own mystery poster If you were given a free one week vacation to a place of your choice, where would you choose to go? Jackie ~*~Sit and daydream, and watch the changing color of the waves that break upon the idle seashore of the mind~*~ ~~Henry Wadsworth Longfellow, — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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Hawaii! Di

08/31/07: Today’s question is being brought to you by our very own mystery poster If you were given a free one week vacation to a place of your choice, where would you choose to go? Jackie

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08/31/07: Today’s question is being brought to you by our very own mystery poster If you were given a free one week vacation to a place of your choice, where would you choose to go? Jackie

anywhere with snow and beautiful scenery. it’s too long since i’ve seen some wonderful snow. — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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08/31/07: snip: If you were given a free one week vacation to a place of your choice, where would you choose to go?

Turtle Island, Fig. = a tropical resort with white sand beaches where they pamper the heck out of you with full spa treatment, exotic foods and drinks and swimming pool overlooking the ocean. Man, can I dream or what? LOL — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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08/31/07: Today’s question is being brought to you by our very own mystery poster If you were given a free one week vacation to a place of your choice, where would you choose to go?

Back to Hawaii. I miss my island. With any luck, pending cancer treatment, I’ll be there in a couple of months. Yeah, well, that’s if my friends can pay for it. kili — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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OT: Need advise please…….

admin — Mon, 02 Oct 2006 00:00:00 +0000

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Hey folks, I got a letter from the Mayo Clinic in Jacksonville, FL today regarding my request for a Charity Case to treat my cancer. This is what a section of it said, and I’m interested in your interpretation of what it means because my husband and I are at odds. "Thank you for taking the time to fill out the financial questionnaire. We realize that some who come to Mayo Clinic may face financial hardships in meeting the cost of medical care. Mayo Clinic has reviewed your request for financial assistance. In order to help relieve some of your financial burder, we have approved your request. You will not be asked to make payment on any charges related to your diagnosis of Fibromatosis." Okay, question, to me that sounds like they’re taking me on and will help treat my condition. My husband says that he thinks it means they will help diagnose my condition. I’ve already been diagnosed. Doesn’t it sound like they will help with treatment? Any thoughts welcome! kili — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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Doesn’t it sound like they will help with treatment?

It sounds like they’re saying you don’t need to pay them for your diagnosis, but you won’t know for sure until you get a hold of someone at Mayo who knows the answer. Again, I can not stress this strongly enough: make no jokes on the phone about mayonnaise. They won’t be amused. Ian — What can I say about this elixir? Try it on steaks! Cleans nylons! Small craft warnings! It’s great for the home! The office! On fruits! (Frank Zappa) http://sundry.ws/ — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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Sounds to me like they are saying they will help with the cost of treatment for the Fibromatosis! But…. is there a phone number you can call to be sure? Best wishes! MikeH

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Hi, Kili, I agree with Jackie. This is wonderful news and a good start for you. DO keep a file of all emails or snail mail you receive from the clinic. smiles, Elise

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Kili, it sounds like a free ride to me. Great! You should definitely clarify it with them, though. xxoo Anne — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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Kili, I agree with the others.. I think they are saying they will cover anything related to your fibromatosis condition. This is such wonderful news, I am so very happy for you!!!!! Like everyone else said, I echo: call and confirm. If you are super anxious, call a few times LOL. Seriously. If you have a question, ask..and ask until you know that you know so you can relax and not wonder "what if". Keep that letter. Do what Jackie recommends, she knows her stuff. Love and congrats again, I am very happy for you. Sally — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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Kili, The way I read it is, they will cover anything related to your current diagnosis, which is Fribromatosis. I believe you’re correct on this one. I wouldn’t read it the other way. Everything I’ve ever received from my PPO reads like this when they’re covering something. Call them and double check, but it sounds like you’re in! This is great news! Love, Dawn — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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Sounds to me like they’ll not charge you for anything related to the fibromatosis, but will not treat you for anything else. — David Chamberlain – ASAPM Moderator | Support for anxiety or panic disorders. Check us out! | | alt.support.anxiety-panic.moderated http://stump.algebra.com/~asapm | — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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HI, As others have suggested, I would call or perhaps write a quick note / e-mail to them. I would thank them for approving you, and just say something like "I am proboly just a bit anxious about this, and I applogize, could you please help clarify something for me? Can you please tell me if this program will cover my ongoing treatment for this condition or if this aid program only applies to the diagnosistic phase" jamie — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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That’s how I took it, too. I leave for the Mayo Clinic today because my appt. is early tomorrow morning. I’ll know more when I get there. kili — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hey folks, I got a letter from the Mayo Clinic in Jacksonville, FL today regarding my request for a Charity Case to treat my cancer. This is what a section of it said, and I’m interested in your interpretation of what it means because my husband and I are at odds. "Thank you for taking the time to fill out the financial questionnaire. We realize that some who come to Mayo Clinic may face financial hardships in meeting the cost of medical care. Mayo Clinic has reviewed your request for financial assistance. In order to help relieve some of your financial burder, we have approved your request. You will not be asked to make payment on any charges related to your diagnosis of Fibromatosis." Okay, question, to me that sounds like they’re taking me on and will help treat my condition. My husband says that he thinks it means they will help diagnose my condition. I’ve already been diagnosed. Doesn’t it sound like they will help with treatment? Any thoughts welcome! kili Kili, The way I read it is, they will cover anything related to your current diagnosis, which is Fribromatosis. I believe you’re correct on this one. I wouldn’t read it the other way. Everything I’ve ever received from my PPO reads like this when they’re covering something. Call them and double check, but it sounds like you’re in! This is great news!

Dawn, you can not believe how thrilled I am, although the anxiety is kicking in over my appointment up there, tomorrow. I couldn’t sleep all night; just had shortness of breath with my heart pounding. You know the drill. Thank goodness my husband is taking me there so I have his support. Thanks for yours! kili — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – kilikini schreef: Hey folks, I got a letter from the Mayo Clinic in Jacksonville, FL today regarding my request for a Charity Case to treat my cancer. This is what a section of it said, and I’m interested in your interpretation of what it means because my husband and I are at odds. "Thank you for taking the time to fill out the financial questionnaire. We realize that some who come to Mayo Clinic may face financial hardships in meeting the cost of medical care. Mayo Clinic has reviewed your request for financial assistance. In order to help relieve some of your financial burder, we have approved your request. You will not be asked to make payment on any charges related to your diagnosis of Fibromatosis." Okay, question, to me that sounds like they’re taking me on and will help treat my condition. My husband says that he thinks it means they will help diagnose my condition. I’ve already been diagnosed. Doesn’t it sound like they will help with treatment? Any thoughts welcome! kili It *can* be read both ways although it seems more likely to me that it’s about free treatment. I mean, they don’t know yet what exactly they’re going to diagnose you with in the first place, do they? The way I read it , it says: "We’re going to see if you have fibromatosis (or maybe we already know that) and you will not have to pay on any charges *RELATED TO* this diagnosis. What else can be related to a diagnosis except treatment? Philip

Well, they’ve got my slides from my biopsy, I’m bringing my films, they’ve read the operative report AND pathology reports, so the diagnosis has been confirmed. I’m just hoping that this means treatment from this point on is covered. If so, I’ll be away from home for quite a while, which is a bummer. I’m already stressing over my appt. tomorrow. Sigh. We leave tonight. kili — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hey folks, I got a letter from the Mayo Clinic in Jacksonville, FL today regarding my request for a Charity Case to treat my cancer. This is what a section of it said, and I’m interested in your interpretation of what it means because my husband and I are at odds. "Thank you for taking the time to fill out the financial questionnaire. We realize that some who come to Mayo Clinic may face financial hardships in meeting the cost of medical care. Mayo Clinic has reviewed your request for financial assistance. In order to help relieve some of your financial burder, we have approved your request. You will not be asked to make payment on any charges related to your diagnosis of Fibromatosis." Okay, question, to me that sounds like they’re taking me on and will help treat my condition. My husband says that he thinks it means they will help diagnose my condition. I’ve already been diagnosed. Doesn’t it sound like they will help with treatment? Any thoughts welcome! kili Kili, I agree with the others.. I think they are saying they will cover anything related to your fibromatosis condition. This is such wonderful news, I am so very happy for you!!!!! Like everyone else said, I echo: call and confirm. If you are super anxious, call a few times LOL. Seriously. If you have a question, ask..and ask until you know that you know so you can relax and not wonder "what if". Keep that letter. Do what Jackie recommends, she knows her stuff. Love and congrats again, I am very happy for you. Sally Thanks, Sally! We have to leave for the clinic today, so I’ll be sure to call before we head up there. The woman in the Charity Case office and I have established a really good rapport. I just can’t believe they are going to help me! It’s been such a long struggle since I found my tumors in April. kili

Kili, I am really excited to hear what happens at the clinic, you have to please let us know what they say and do.. It is hard to believe really good news sometimes. Actually.. I am not sure it’s even sunk in with me that I found such a nice place to live after the sale of my home. I had pictured a cardboard box for like, a year, LOL. Someday it will hit me that I did not end up in anything like that, but that kind of traumatic worry can stick with you, even after the problem is resolved, LOL. How irrational is that? Try to believe this is real and try to enjoy it. I’ll attempt to realize I don’t reside in a cardboard box in the winter in a climate that can be brutal in the winter. Kili..I’m just so happy for you. You needed good news like this, and I don’t feel it is a coincidence that you had moved near the Mayo Clinic – in spite of the fact you despise where you do live, it looks to me like you ended up living in a place you may not have wanted to be, but would need to be. I’ve just had my life happen that way for me too many times, to not recognize it when it happens in the lives of others. We’ll be waiting to hear what happens at the clinic. Love you, Sally — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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Sounds to me like they are saying they will help with the cost of treatment for the Fibromatosis! But…. is there a phone number you can call to be sure? Best wishes! MikeH

Thanks, Mike. There’s a really, really nice woman named Eloise who works in the Charity Case Department of Mayo Clinic who I’m going to call today before we leave just to be sure. If treatment is covered, that means an MRI, subsequent surgeries, radiation, etc. If it is what you all think it is, it’s amazing! kili — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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Kili, it sounds like a free ride to me. Great! You should definitely clarify it with them, though.

Yeah, I agree. I’ll do that today. Thanks! kili — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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Hi, Kili, I agree with Jackie. This is wonderful news and a good start for you. DO keep a file of all emails or snail mail you receive from the clinic. smiles, Elise

Thanks, Elise! I’ve been keeping a file on everything I’ve received regarding the tumors so far. (The file is getting HUGE!) I’m already getting nervous for my oncologist appointment tomorrow, though. Luckily, my husband will be with me and that will help tremendously. kili — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hey folks, I got a letter from the Mayo Clinic in Jacksonville, FL today regarding my request for a Charity Case to treat my cancer. This is what a section of it said, and I’m interested in your interpretation of what it means because my husband and I are at odds. "Thank you for taking the time to fill out the financial questionnaire. We realize that some who come to Mayo Clinic may face financial hardships in meeting the cost of medical care. Mayo Clinic has reviewed your request for financial assistance. In order to help relieve some of your financial burder, we have approved your request. You will not be asked to make payment on any charges related to your diagnosis of Fibromatosis." Okay, question, to me that sounds like they’re taking me on and will help treat my condition. My husband says that he thinks it means they will help diagnose my condition. I’ve already been diagnosed. Doesn’t it sound like they will help with treatment? Any thoughts welcome! kili Kili, I agree with the others.. I think they are saying they will cover anything related to your fibromatosis condition. This is such wonderful news, I am so very happy for you!!!!! Like everyone else said, I echo: call and confirm. If you are super anxious, call a few times LOL. Seriously. If you have a question, ask..and ask until you know that you know so you can relax and not wonder "what if". Keep that letter. Do what Jackie recommends, she knows her stuff. Love and congrats again, I am very happy for you. Sally

Thanks, Sally! We have to leave for the clinic today, so I’ll be sure to call before we head up there. The woman in the Charity Case office and I have established a really good rapport. I just can’t believe they are going to help me! It’s been such a long struggle since I found my tumors in April. kili — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hey folks, I got a letter from the Mayo Clinic in Jacksonville, FL today regarding my request for a Charity Case to treat my cancer. This is what a section of it said, and I’m interested in your interpretation of what it means because my husband and I are at odds. "Thank you for taking the time to fill out the financial questionnaire. We realize that some who come to Mayo Clinic may face financial hardships in meeting the cost of medical care. Mayo Clinic has reviewed your request for financial assistance. In order to help relieve some of your financial burder, we have approved your request. You will not be asked to make payment on any charges related to your diagnosis of Fibromatosis." Okay, question, to me that sounds like they’re taking me on and will help treat my condition. My husband says that he thinks it means they will help diagnose my condition. I’ve already been diagnosed. Doesn’t it sound like they will help with treatment? Any thoughts welcome! Sounds to me like they’ll not charge you for anything related to the fibromatosis, but will not treat you for anything else. — David Chamberlain – ASAPM Moderator

Okay, consensus is in; sounds like I am going to get fully treated for the cancer. Yay! Thanks, David! I can’t believe I’m finally getting a break. kili — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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I may borrow your note word for word, Jamie. :~) It sounds perfect. Thank you. kili — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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kilikini schreef: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hey folks, I got a letter from the Mayo Clinic in Jacksonville, FL today regarding my request for a Charity Case to treat my cancer. This is what a section of it said, and I’m interested in your interpretation of what it means because my husband and I are at odds. "Thank you for taking the time to fill out the financial questionnaire. We realize that some who come to Mayo Clinic may face financial hardships in meeting the cost of medical care. Mayo Clinic has reviewed your request for financial assistance. In order to help relieve some of your financial burder, we have approved your request. You will not be asked to make payment on any charges related to your diagnosis of Fibromatosis." Okay, question, to me that sounds like they’re taking me on and will help treat my condition. My husband says that he thinks it means they will help diagnose my condition. I’ve already been diagnosed. Doesn’t it sound like they will help with treatment? Any thoughts welcome! kili

It *can* be read both ways although it seems more likely to me that it’s about free treatment. I mean, they don’t know yet what exactly they’re going to diagnose you with in the first place, do they? The way I read it , it says: "We’re going to see if you have fibromatosis (or maybe we already know that) and you will not have to pay on any charges *RELATED TO* this diagnosis. What else can be related to a diagnosis except treatment? Philip — The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm

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update John Preston

admin — Tue, 14 Mar 2006 00:00:00 +0000

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Well things are a changing, the stage one clinical trial (IV antibody) that John started a couple of months ago has been abandoned, this is due to a rising PSA and disease progression. After 2 cycles of treatment Johns PSA is now 295 so it obviously was not working. We have an appointment at Royal Marsden to discuss another trial, it is a phase 2 chemotherapy trial we will know more details next week. John has been getting a lot of discomfort and the hospice Macmillan nurse has sorted out a pain management plan, which includes oramorf should John need it. John will also get spot radiation on a mass on his jaw that is causing him problems. well apart from that we are ok and going onward into the fog. Best wishes to all. Love Carolyn Preston xx

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I am damned sorry to hear this, Carolyn. As best as I can tell, John and I are very nearly the same age and I shudder to think what it would be like to be at this stage already. You (plural) are in my thoughts and prayers. — Biopsy 11/01/2000 G7 (3+4), T2c RRP 12/15/2000 G7 (3+4), T3cN0M0 Neg margins PSA .1 .1 .1 .27 .37 .75 PSA .34 .22 .15 .21 .32 Lupron 07/03 (1 mo) 8/03 (4 mo), 12/03, 4/04, 09/04, 01/05, 5/05, 10/05, 2/06 PSA .07 .05 .06 .09 .08 .132 Non Illegitimi Carborundum

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Thankyou, John is 51yrs old. we know we are in troubled waters however we are not miserable or moping around we intend to take several holidays this year Scotland and the Orkney Isles in June, southern Ireland for my little bruvs wedding in July, Poole in Dorset in August and maybe Florida in November, if John has to have treatments during the holidays we will just have to pop into London have treatment and then back to holiday fun!!!!! All this as well as having a severely disabled 8 year old daughter hey ho what fun….. See our family our son and daughter Kevin (22yrs) and Stacey(16yrs) http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v610/gsx14rider/PB180015.jpg John Carolyn Preston http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v610/gsx14rider/P1070005.jpg our daughter Lucy-mae http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v610/gsx14rider/PA210001.jpg John and his bike http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v610/gsx14rider/me800×600.jpg Hope you like the photos. Carolyn

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I loved the photos. We are so used to seeing each other as just bits of text on the newsgroup that its great to see the real images of human beings behind the text. Two sets of clinical trials that have intrigued me are those for phenoxodiol and for the cancer vaccines. Like everything else, these are highly experimental and may very well not pan out, but the early testing showed some promise. I don’t know if either is being tested across the pond. A lot of the original work on both of these was actually in Australia. The "vaccines" are not for prevention like most vaccines, but for treatment. The idea is to sensitize the patient’s own immune system to something in the tumor cells and thereby get the immune system to attack them. I wish you, John, and the rest of your family the very best. Alan

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Wonderful pictures. Thankyou. Dale j. —

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Hi Carolyn and John, we have been wondering how it has been going. Kkeep up the good fight and keep enjoying each other. It’s great that he has so many opportunities for clinical trials in which to participate. Curt and I seem to have most of our differences worked out. His acceptance of his brain mets has been crucial in this process. His PSA is now in the 1100’s but he’s still hanging in there. having him back home has been very good for his health as I can help him remember things he forgets ( like meds ) take care both of you and I appreciate the pictures. Lori and Curt Miller

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Thanks for the update Lori. I was just thinking of you yesterday. — Biopsy 11/01/2000 G7 (3+4), T2c RRP 12/15/2000 G7 (3+4), T3cN0M0 Neg margins PSA .1 .1 .1 .27 .37 .75 PSA .34 .22 .15 .21 .32 Lupron 07/03 (1 mo) 8/03 (4 mo), 12/03, 4/04, 09/04, 01/05, 5/05, 10/05, 2/06 PSA .07 .05 .06 .09 .08 .132 Non Illegitimi Carborundum

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi Carolyn and John, we have been wondering how it has been going. Kkeep up the good fight and keep enjoying each other. It’s great that he has so many opportunities for clinical trials in which to participate. Curt and I seem to have most of our differences worked out. His acceptance of his brain mets has been crucial in this process. His PSA is now in the 1100’s but he’s still hanging in there. having him back home has been very good for his health as I can help him remember things he forgets ( like meds ) take care both of you and I appreciate the pictures. Lori and Curt Miller

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Lori, I think of you and your children often. I’m glad to hear you are there now to help Curt and he is accepting your help. ((HUGS)) Bev

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Dear Lori, I was wondering how you and Curt were doing so I looked you up. I know you went through quite a rough patch with him and am relieved to see that things are a bit smoother for you two now. All I can do is offer my best wishes for you and he that you have the strength to bear up for each other through the days to come. My email is good. Take care, Carmen from ASDLC

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I am damned sorry to hear this, Carolyn. As best as I can tell, John and I are very nearly the same age Thankyou, John is 51yrs old. __ Yup, that’s where I’m at. 52 in September. we know we are in troubled waters however we are not miserable or moping around we intend to take several holidays this year Scotland and the Orkney Isles in June, southern Ireland for my little bruvs wedding in July, Poole in Dorset in August and maybe Florida in November, __ That’s quite an itinerary. It’s more than I have planned for the next five years. See our family __ Nice family. — Biopsy 11/01/2000 G7 (3+4), T2c RRP 12/15/2000 G7 (3+4), T3cN0M0 Neg margins PSA .1 .1 .1 .27 .37 .75 PSA .34 .22 .15 .21 .32 Lupron 07/03 (1 mo) 8/03 (4 mo), 12/03, 4/04, 09/04, 01/05, 5/05, 10/05, 2/06 PSA .07 .05 .06 .09 .08 .132 Non Illegitimi Carborundum

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~ Kay Redfield Jamison,

admin — Thu, 29 Sep 2005 00:00:00 +0000

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"… as A. Alvarez put it, ‘airless and without exits.’ Life is bloodless, pulseless, And yet Present enough to allow a suffocating Horror and pain. All bearings Are lost; all things are dark And drained of feeling. The slippage Into futility is first gradual, Then utter." ~ Kay Redfield Jamison, From "Night Falls Fast"

[p. 104] "Kay ~ When did professionals stop Doing their job ~ ? There’s a very real problem When you ask for help, And none came Or is forthcoming, A very sick lame game. Passing out phone numbers, And infinite bureaucratic regress Offers no solution ~ Further Hell, Accompanied by The Burden Of Self Blame. Lame & Lamer Begging, crawling on the floor … Regressed to quadruped. Is this your address ~ ? I never lived here before, Before this past year. Not for nope do I mope, But I am tired of this, lost Hope." ~ Virginia Hooper "Exuberance ~ Ha ~ !" ~ Folly ~ * ~ Blog, I’ll warrant ye, or dog? Who knows. Pass the grog! But if ye see me lost pup, please bring that scurvy dog home! I got Leon a brand-new bone, with a chest full a’ booty. http://journals.aol.com/virginiaz/DreamingofLeonardo

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17 September 2005 Dear Cynthia R. Pfeffer, MD: You are a liar. I told you in June and September 2004, in your office, that I was abused. When I spoke to you on the telephone, one month ago, the first time I have spoken to you since September 29, 2004, because you refuse to return my calls or letters, you told me you have no memory of that. You are a liar. I almost died due to the combined abuse, negligence, and malpractice of ~ Victoria Rivamonte, PsyD Matthew B. Smith, MD I have written you emails with some of these details. I have filed 2 official complaints with NYU Medical Center, who is ignoring me, and has told me this is not an NYU issue. You referred me to Leslie Seiden, MD, because I refused to continue with Smith after October 2004. Seiden wrote NY State Medical Board in July 2005 and told them I was "disturbed" and after money, and that she did not think I was abused. Seiden terminated therapy with me, effective August 7, 2005, and refused to hear ALL the details of what was done to me in therapy, which endangered my life, and which, based on my knowledge as a successful well-paid professional medical writer, is unethical and illegal. I refuse to report this to the NY State Medical Board, at this time, because I do not think, without having my own legal counsel, my concerns and violations will be reviewed in an unbiased manner. Advocacy groups for patients’ and victims’ right clearly state this fact; and based on my experience this past year with NYU Medical Center and other physicians, I think that assesment is correct. But I am telling you. Virginia H. Hooper 401 East 34th St. NY NY 10016

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"Happy Aniversary Capsicum. I sincerely hope you Are swelled." ~ Twittering

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"Please remove the Spell & release me from Hell." ~ Twittering

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"… to the Next Circle ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ " ~ Twittering

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"My guide and I entered that hidden road To make our way back up to the bright world. We never thought of resting while we climbed. We climbed, she first and I behind, until, Through a small round opening ahead of us I saw the lovely things the heavens hold, And we came out to see once more the stars." ~ Dante, "The Divine Comedy, Inferno" [xxxiv; 133-139]

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"The aluminum ladder shivered slightly, like a highstrung youthful steed, as he trusted his weight to it. One step, two, then t he third. The rope nestled dryly around his neck; the ladder trembled as he reached up and behind to slip the knot tighter, snug against what seemed the correct spot. Now the ladder was swinging violently from side to side; the agitated blood of its jockey was flailing it toward the hurdle, where it lifted, as he had foreseen, at the most delicate urging, and fell away. Clyde heard the clatter and thump. What he had not expected was the burning, as though a hot rasp were being pulled up through his esophagus, and the way the angles of wood and carpet and wallpaper whirled, whirled so widely it seemed for a second he had sprouted eyes in the back of his head. Then a redness in his overstuffed skull was followed by blackness, giving way, with the change of a single letter, to blankness." ~ John Updike, From "The Witches of Eastwick"

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"… to the Next Circle ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ " ~ Twittering "Another Universe, Where you do not exist. Final Exit ~ You people are trash, and I hate your guts." ~ Virginia H. Hooper

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4 October 2005 Dear Cynthia R. Pfeffer, MD: You are a liar. I told you in June and September 2004, in your office, that I was abused. When I spoke to you on the telephone, one month ago, the first time I have spoken to you since September 29, 2004, because you refuse to return my calls or letters, you told me you have no memory of that. You are a liar. How many patients Have you abused? Children, adolescents, or adults? Virginia H. Hooper

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Dear Cynthia R. Pfeffer, MD: Children, adolescents, or adults? What do you do when your patiet Tells you that happened to her? I told you that. Virginia H. Hooper

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"Just in case you thought there was no distinction between representation and reality there is death. Just in case you thought experience and the representation of experience melted into one another, death provides a structural principle separating the two. . . . See the difference." ~ Regina Barreca "Writing as Voodoo: Sorcery, Hysteria, and Art Logo"

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4 October 2005 Dr. Cynthia Pfeffer, MD: I left an emergency telephone message today with you: I need my ADD medication, I have no other physician, and I am in dangerous withdrawal. I take 15 mg/day Dexadrine brand version, tablets IR. I have taken, as you know, ADD meds for 6 years. Please let me know you can provide needed emergency coverage for me, as I am physically ill, and it is important that I do not discontinue my ADD medication, or I will likely become dangerously despondent. Thank you. Virginia Hooper

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My father committed suicide, And suffered from substance abuse. My mother died from a demyelinating disease, And suffered cancer And suffered from substance abuse. Both suffered depression And cognitive impairment from those ravaging diseases. Both of my parents were dead By the time I turned 17. I am an only child. I am also a homosexual. My surviving family disowned me, When I was 21 years old. I survived most of that. But I am not surviving the effects of abuse From 2 therapists.

I have ADHD. I have sought treatment for that, too. I presently have no ADHD physician, And that is dangerous. I ran out of medication today, And that is dangerous. I do not do drink alcohol. I do not smoke. I do not recreational drugs. I am afraid of mental healthcare professionals After what happened to me this past year. I turned 50 last week. I got no calls or cards, But I did get one electronic card from an online friend. This is my life. This is real. This is my biological reality. My name is Virginia H. Hooper.

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Lenard Adler, MD

admin — Tue, 20 Sep 2005 00:00:00 +0000

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Lenard Adler, MD: In my opinion, you disgrace New York University Medical Center by your presence. My name is Virginia Hooper. I live in New York City. Just see ~ http://groups.google.com/group/alt.support.attn-deficit/browse_frm/th…

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I think anyone who condones, and allows, the response I received from NYU Medical Center is not responsible enough to conduct research. I almost died from abuse by your staff. My attempts to file privacy complaints, based on Federal and NY State law, were dismissed, without any concern with the facts, and the violations that endangered my life. You allowed that to happen. You are an accomplice to that violation. I almost died. I lost 2 additional years of my life. That is due to your behavior, as well as that of your staff. My name is Virginia H. Hooper. I live in New York City.

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Based upon the response I received from my privacy complaint filed with you and the Office of Compliance, I think you are unethical. I do not think pharmaceutical companies should fund your research. I do not think the US Government should fund your research. I do not think pharmaceutical companies should fund your research. I do not think the US Government should fund your research. I do not think pharmaceutical companies should fund your research. I do not think the US Government should fund your research. I do not think pharmaceutical companies should fund your research. I do not think the US Government should fund your research. I do not think pharmaceutical companies should fund your research. I do not think the US Government should fund your research. I do not think pharmaceutical companies should fund your research. I do not think the US Government should fund your research. I do not think pharmaceutical companies should fund your research. I do not think the US Government should fund your research. I do not think pharmaceutical companies should fund your research. I do not think the US Government should fund your research. I do not think pharmaceutical companies should fund your research. I do not think the US Government should fund your research. I do not think pharmaceutical companies should fund your research. I do not think the US Government should fund your research. I do not think pharmaceutical companies should fund your research. I do not think the US Government should fund your research. I do not think pharmaceutical companies should fund your research. I do not think the US Government should fund your research. I do not think pharmaceutical companies should fund your research. I do not think the US Government should fund your research. I do not think pharmaceutical companies should fund your research. I do not think the US Government should fund your research. I do not think pharmaceutical companies should fund your research. I do not think the US Government should fund your research. I do not think pharmaceutical companies should fund your research. I do not think the US Government should fund your research.

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Dear Dr. Lenard Adler, MD: Based upon the response I received from my privacy complaint filed with you and the Office of Compliance, I think you are unethical. I do not think pharmaceutical companies should fund your research. I do not think the US Government should fund your research. I think anyone who condones, and allows, the response I received from NYU Medical Center is not responsible enough to conduct research. I almost died. My name is Virginia H. Hooper. I live in New York City.

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Cc: [Former!] Robert Cancro, MD, Chair, Psychiatry Department, New York University Medical Center; Mark Brady, Chief Compliance Officer, New York University Medical Center Medical Patient Privacy Issue July 8, 2004 Dear Dr. Lenard Adler, MD: I write you now under strictest confidence, which the NYU Medical Center community and Federal government guarantee me. Today, July 8, 2004, I contacted the NYU Ethics Consultation Service regarding my concerns that my medical confidentiality has been violated; Esther Chanchkes, Ph.D., Social Work Department, advised me to contact the relevant treating department directly, as well as the patient representative department. Because my issue concerns the NYU Adult ADHD center, you appear to be the relevant contact person, as you are Director. If this is incorrect, please advise me to the appropriate department within the NYU Medical Center. I am a female adult, with a diagnosis of adult ADHD. In September 1999, I visited the NYU adult ADHD service, then located at the Hospital of Joint Diseases. I received excellent care from Dr. Matthew B. Smith. I still see Dr. Smith in his private practice, and I have always been exceptionally pleased with his medical care, sensitivity, and expertise; I intend to continue seeing Dr. Smith in the future, as he provides excellent care. However, I am contacting you now regarding a different healthcare provider. In April 2002, for psychotherapy, I began seeing a psychologist in your department. Although I have seen her in her private practice office, rather than the NYU offices, she gave me the standard "NYU School of Medicine NOTICE OF PRIVACY PRACTICES ACKNOWLEDGMENT" form from the Neurology ADHD Program, 530 First Avenue, Suite 5A, New York, NY. Therefore, I believe that this is an NYU Medical Center issue, and I am pursuing this issue through appropriate NYU Medical Center channels, as well as appropriate Federal channels. Further, all written correspondence with the treating psychologist has been within the domain of the NYU Medical School e-mail server. I have serious concerns that my private medical information — regarding sensitive material I divulged in psychotherapy with my psychologist, as well as my ADHD diagnosis — has been divulged and my privacy has been violated. As of May 2004, for a variety of reasons, I have formally terminated treatment with the treating psychologist. I am also an official volunteer member of the NYU Medical Center community, active since spring 2003. In my formal professional career, I earn my living as a medical writer. Accordingly, as a volunteer, I work for the NYU Child Study Center, contributing articles for the Aboutourkids.org website. I enjoy this work immensely, and I have immense respect for all professionals in that department. From the beginning, in 2003, I reported to Robin F. Goodman, Ph.D., and Anita Gurian, Ph.D.; since the departure of Dr. Goodman from the Child Study Center, in early 2004, I have reported directly to Dr. Gurian. It has been a great pleasure working with both, and I have no complaints or concerns about either Dr. Goodman or Dr. Gurian. I do, however, have serious concerns that my private medical information — regarding material I divulged in psychotherapy with my psychologist — has been passed along to Dr. Goodman and Dr. Gurian. If this has occurred, I consider this a serious breach of my medical privacy, as protected by Federal guidelines. I consider my mental health information an extremely personal issue, which I guard due to professional concerns. Public knowledge of an ADHD diagnosis can potentially impact my professional career in many adverse ways, affecting my earning ability and credibility as professional. I do not make this information public, nor will I in the future. My work for the NYU Child Study Center, while performed on a voluntary basis, is an important aspect of my professional career as a medical writer. This Volunteer Service commitment is list on my CV/resume; I refer potential clients/employers to the website to review my work; and if appropriate, I utilize Dr. Goodman and Dr. Gurian as professional references. Further, because I work in the medical communications industry (eg, continuing medical education, pharmaceutical advertising, medical journalism, etc.), it is not uncommon for members of the NYU medical community to overlap with my professional contacts in the medical communications industry. It is standard procedure for me to consult regularly with medical opinion leaders in diverse therapeutic areas. Therefore, it is crucial that my medical privacy be maintained within the NYU volunteer community. Understandably, it is imperative — and within my rights — that the Child Study Center community regard me in the same untarnished light as my formal professional colleagues; additionally, it is my Federal right that my medical mental health information remain unavailable to both communities. It is my understanding that, despite the fact that I am an official NYU Medical Center volunteer, my private medical information — divulged in psychotherapy — should remain private, should remain unavailable to my reporting chain of command within the NYU Medical Center volunteer structure. I understand that I am protected, without fear of reprisal or retribution, to pursue this issue for clarification, under NYU Medical Center compliance guidelines, as well as Federal privacy protections for medical information. It is also my understanding that my decision to clarify this issue will not further affect my medical privacy or affect my standing as an official NYU Medical School volunteer. Once again, I remind you that the NYU Ethics Consultation Service (212.263.5018) directed to the department head of the relevant department, which in this case, appears to be you, Dr. Adler. If this referral is incorrect, I appreciate your guidance and attention in directing me to the appropriate venue within the NYU Medical Center. Thank you for your respected attention and assistance. Please note that I am also copying this correspondence to Robert Cancro, Psychiatry, Chairman, and Mark S. Brody, CHIEF COMPLIANCE OFFICER, NYU. Sincerely, Virginia Hooper 401 East 34th St. 16GN

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"Dear Lenard Adler, MD ~ Do you fuck your patients, too?" ~ Folly ~ * ~ Blog, I’ll warrant ye, or dog? Who knows. Pass the grog! But if ye see me lost pup, please bring that scurvy dog home! I got Leon a brand-new bone, with a chest full a’ booty. http://journals.aol.com/virginiaz/DreamingofLeonardo

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"Dear Lenard Adler, MD ~ Do you fuck your patients, too? Do laugh in their face When Rivamonte abuses them?" ~ Folly

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Do you masturbate in sesson, too?

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Got any pubic hair left, after all those drugs?

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or have you mastered the knack of shooting Look Ma ~ NO Hands ~ !

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Going to jail? NO matter. That’s just YOUR reality.

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~* The Berry Hill Institute ~ A very special residential place For troubled Therapists … Gte help, Begin your stay today.

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"You’re obviously new here. Warhol’s been surpassing himself for sheer Stupidity lately ~ !" ~ Lensman "You two were office mates, Conflict of interest ~ That’s why You are guilty of not reporting abuse. NO EXCUSE. Power in high places abused perpetuates more Abuse …" ~ Mer Loleil

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Tradition lyrics Artist – Fiddler on the Roof soundtrack Album – Fiddler on the Roof Lyrics – Tradition [TEVYE] Tradition, tradition! Tradition! Tradition, tradition! Tradition! [TEVYE & PAPAS] Who, day and night, must scramble for a living, Feed a wife and children, say his daily prayers? And who has the right, as master of the house, To have the final word at home? The Papa, the Papa! Tradition. The Papa, the Papa! Tradition. [GOLDE & MAMAS] Who must know the way to make a proper home, A quiet home, a kosher home? Who must raise the family and run the home, So Papa’s free to read the holy books? The Mama, the Mama! Tradition! The Mama, the Mama! Tradition! [SONS] At three, I started Hebrew school. At ten, I learned a trade. I hear they’ve picked a bride for me. I hope she’s pretty. The son, the son! Tradition! The son, the son! Tradition! [DAUGHTERS] And who does Mama teach to mend and tend and fix, Preparing me to marry whoever Papa picks? The daughter, the daughter! Tradition! The daughter, the daughter! Tradition! [MATCHMAKER] Matchmaker, matchmaker, make me a match. Find me a find, catch me a catch. Matchmaker, matchmaker, look through your book And make me a perfect match. Matchmaker, matchmaker, I’ll bring the veil. You bring the groom, slender and pale. Bring me a ring, for I’m longing to be The envy of all I see. For Papa, make him a scholar. For Mama, make him rich as a king. For me, well, I wouldn’t holler If her were as handsome as anything. Matchmaker, matchmaker, make me a match. Find me a find, catch me a catch. Night after night, in the dark, I’m alone. So, find me a match of my own. [TSEITEL] Hodel, oh Hodel, have I made a match for you. He’s handsome! He’s young! All right, he’s 62. But he’s a nice man, a good catch. True? True! I promise you’ll be happy. And even if you’re not, There’s more to life than that. Don’t ask me what! Chava! I’ve found him! Will you be a lucky bride! He’s handsome. He’s tall! That is, from side to side. But he’s a nice man, a good catch, Right? Right! You’ve heard he has a temper. He’ll beat you every night. But only when he’s sober- so you’re all right! Did you think you’d get a prince? Well I do the best I can. With no dowry, no money, no family background, Be glad you got a man! Matchmaker, matchmaker, you know that I’m Still very young. Please, take your time. Up to this minute, I’ve misunderstood That I could get stuck for good. Dear Yenta, see that he’s gentle. Remember, you were also a bride. It’s not that I’m sentimental. It’s just that I’m terrified! Matchmaker, matchmaker, plan me no plans. I’m in no rush. maybe I’ve learned Playing with matches a girl can get burned. So bring me no ring, groom me no groom, Find me no find, catch me no catch. Unless he’s a matchless match!

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"The Mama, the Mama! Tradition! The Mama, the Mama! Tradition!" ~ Twittering

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!Quoof!

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What’s YOUR problem Dr Lenard Adler? ~ Virginia H. Hooper

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?Abuse, You permit?

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?Violations, You permit? "Are you railing at the world Or is the world railing at you?" ~ Ivor "… puking over the rail." ~ Twittering "NYU Medical Center Nothing, Not another word from you Heard. You done Twittering Very wrong." ~ Folly

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I have ADHD. I have sought treatment for that, too. I presently have no ADHD physician, And that is dangerous. I ran out of medication today, And that is dangerous. I do not drink alcohol. I do not smoke. I am afraid of mental healthcare professionals After what happened to me this past year. I turned 50 last week. I got no calls or cards, But I did get one electronic card from an online friend. This is my life. This is real. This is my biological reality. My name is Virginia H. Hooper. I almost died Because of the abuse of 2 mental health professionals, And the aftermath of trying report these events And pursure appropriate legal action In the State of New York. My name is Virginia H. Hooper. My name is Virginia H. Hooper. My name is Virginia H. Hooper. My name is Virginia H. Hooper. My name is Virginia H. Hooper.

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?Violations, You permit? "Are you railing at the world Or is the world railing at you?" ~ Ivor

I learned something new today which may be useful for you to know. The stalking therapist succeeded in getting someone to repost a slew of alexplore’s old posts about me. Since a cognitive behavioral therapist manufactured the problem with Alexplore; I replied to his new recruit posting those old posts by posting the names of a bunch of other cognitive behavioral therapists. Guess what? Some people have google alert them —anytime their name is posted. So, the prez of the NACBT replied—and told me what I expected to hear–the NACBT doesn’t sanction cognitive behavioral therapists who torture stangers for five friggen years. IYou should include other therapists names in your signative if you want to be refused help obtaining justice, by everyone, and, have a record of it. Like so — Robert J. DeRubeis, Ph.D. David M. Clark, D. Phil, Steven D. Hollon, Ph.D, Richard Heimberg, Ph.D. Aldo Pucci, Dr. Carl Simonton, Dr. Dennis Gilliams, Dr. David Burns, Dr. Jim Perryman, Dr. Paul Hauck, Dr. Maxie Maultsby, Dr. Mike Rosenbaum, Dr. Michael Edelstein, Dr. Nando Pelusi, Dr. Ed Jacobs, Dr. Rex Gatto, Dr. Mariusz Wirga, Dr. Mike DeBernardi, Donald Meichenbaum, Ph.D. Geula Lowenberg are all people who could have stopped sadistic predators like Pablo from playing psychopathic zero sum games in support groups, but lack ethics, so didn’t stop them.

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You violated me. You almost killed me. You destroyed my life, a life I loved. You broke the law. You abused and harmed me. I hate you. I hope the State of New York stops you. This is not joke. My life is not a joke.

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Bye bye, Gillighan!

admin — Wed, 07 Sep 2005 00:00:00 +0000

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P.S.: Medias here had it first that he died of cancer. Then he died of a (drastic) cancer treatment. And tis morning, on my way to work, they said he died during a quadruple bypass. Sounds like this often when they want to hide what they really died of…or just wanna keep it "private". =?windows-1252?Q?Ghost_Walker=99?= – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -(night-ri…@Cookieshaw.ca) writes: > Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: >> Bob Denver, the actor who played Gilligan on Gillighan’s Island, passed away. >> He was 70 and died from a cancer treatment. >> Thanks for the childhood giggles! >> Hope your life had many too! > what a shock it was to hear of his passing, > my folks and i shared alot of laughs watching gilligans island. > if it was’nt for gilligan, the show would have had a short life, > but because of gilligan screwing up their rescue attemps, the show went > on for 2 or 3 seasons > ghost >> —

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Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: > Bob Denver, the actor who played Gilligan on Gillighan’s Island, passed away. > He was 70 and died from a cancer treatment. > Thanks for the childhood giggles! > Hope your life had many too!

what a shock it was to hear of his passing, my folks and i shared alot of laughs watching gilligans island. if it was’nt for gilligan, the show would have had a short life, but because of gilligan screwing up their rescue attemps, the show went on for 2 or 3 seasons ghost – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> —

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -=?windows-1252?Q?Ghost_Walker=99?= (night-ri…@Cookieshaw.ca) writes: > Eleonore Beaudoin wrote: >> Bob Denver, the actor who played Gilligan on Gillighan’s Island, passed away. >> He was 70 and died from a cancer treatment. >> Thanks for the childhood giggles! >> Hope your life had many too! > what a shock it was to hear of his passing, > my folks and i shared alot of laughs watching gilligans island. > if it was’nt for gilligan, the show would have had a short life, > but because of gilligan screwing up their rescue attemps, the show went > on for 2 or 3 seasons

I dunno how many seasons…all episodes were a bit like the other…But as a kid, it gave me somethign to watch on the three tv channels we had in the countryside (they did nto install cable there). We had CBC French and English (sate tv) and "channel 13" which had American stuff on it. Most kids donlt have a clue what it is like to have only 23 channels on the tv, and to be stuck most of the time picking between a National Filmboard boring like mad documentary at the time,or the news (oh yuk, kids hate that -and some adults too;-)- and of course, Canadian hockey, where you only had one tv per home, too, and had to clench your teeth when "dad" wanted to watch hockey while for once in a bluemoon, there was somethign really good on the other channel;-) But Gillighan played early enough for us kids to see it before dad woudl roder the tv off and everyone to go play outdoors, then to have supper then do homeworks…Then watch whatever HE felt liek watching, with bedtime at 8:30….Gngnngn. Only way to cheat in that bedtime was to rptend you loved okay, as my younger sisters found out. I did too, but woudl crash alseep before 8:30, so boring it was… > > ghost >> —

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Bob Denver, the actor who played Gilligan on Gillighan’s Island, passed away. He was 70 and died from a cancer treatment. Thanks for the childhood giggles! Hope your life had many too! —

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I feel so selfish

admin — Sun, 21 Aug 2005 00:00:00 +0000

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I think it’s okay. I don’t want to mourn the living, at least not before I know for sure what we’re dealing with. Right now, Betty is happy and healthy, and in her mind, I’m sure, nothing is amiss. Still, I’ve had to numb my spirit a bit. Before, Betty was like sunshine to me. Now, I see Betty through dark clouds of concern. Before, we were carefree, and we would hug and dance. Now, I handle her carefully, clinically – she’s become a patient. I had a dream where she could no longer work her jaw or eat, and I ordered her death by lethal injection. As cold as a Roman emperor giving a thumbs-down. I feel like warning Betty to stay away from me. I’m no longer the daddy she knew, the one she trusts and loves. I’ll spirit her off. I’ll chop off her jaw. I’ll have her put to sleep. She can’t imagine the terrible things I could do. So I numb myself and I hope – that the cancer hasn’t spread widely. If it’s spread to her lungs or other organs, there probably isn’t much that can be done. I hope that surgery and radiation will be enough, and even if it isn’t, we can make the best of whatever time we have left together – that’s all any cat and hoomin can do.

I am sorry to read the news about Betty’s biopsy results; we are purring very, very hard for her and for you. But you are wrong about not being the daddy she loves and trusts; this would have happened to her no matter what, and think how awful it would be for her if she didn’t have you – if she didn’t have love and comfort at home, and the medical care to give her a chance, and a gentle end if necessary. She’s absolutely right to give you her love and her trust; it’s just an awfully hard thing for the human side of the equation. (((((((Tak))))))) —— Krista

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So I numb myself and I hope – that the cancer hasn’t spread widely. If it’s spread to her lungs or other organs, there probably isn’t much that can be done. I hope that surgery and radiation will be enough, and even if it isn’t, we can make the best of whatever time we have left together – that’s all any cat and hoomin can do.

Aww, Tak. You and Betty are in our thoughts. I know all about having to do things to cats for their own good, when they don’t understand why they are being tortured so. If only they could understand our words, or we could talk so they understand. — Marina, Frank, Miranda and Caliban. In loving memory of Nikki. marina (dot) kurten (at) iki (dot) fi Pics at http://uk.pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/frankiennikki/ and http://community.webshots.com/user/frankiennikki

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You’ve had to medicate your kitties a lot, which is hard. I’ve found Betty very easy to handle, but I’m sure she doesn’t like medical procedures. At the last vet appointment, she was shaking with fear as I was holding her. Right now, things are still pretty normal. Betty has an appointment with an oncologist next Thursday.

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Thank you for thinking about Betty, Pam. It’s really not selfish to have a life – and you have enough on your plate for maybe two or three lives. I got word on Betty’s biopsy results today, and they were as expected, so I’ve gotten a referral, and have been setting up a consult with the veterinary oncology center. Tak Tak, I’m so sorry I’ve been wondering all week, but hadn’t seen a topic about. Purrs contiue here in W. Suz&Spicey

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Tak: I’m so sorry that the results were as expected. We continue to send purrs and hugs your way. Susan M Otis and Chester

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Thank you for thinking about Betty, Pam. It’s really not selfish to have a life – and you have enough on your plate for maybe two or three lives. I got word on Betty’s biopsy results today, and they were as expected, so I’ve gotten a referral, and have been setting up a consult with the veterinary oncology center. Tak Tak, I’m so sorry I’ve been wondering all week, but hadn’t seen a topic about. Purrs contiue here in W. Suz&Spicey

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Please do *not* think you are doing anything bad to Betty, Tak, on the contrary, you are doing your very best to find the best cure possible for her. You are her saviour. I know this is hard, but please do not make it harder on yourself imagining things that could not be further away from the truth. Lots and lots of purrs and best wishes for Betty to recover and hugs for you, Tak, for taking such good care of her, — Polonca & Soncek

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I think it’s okay. I don’t want to mourn the living, at least not before I know for sure what we’re dealing with. Right now, Betty is happy and healthy, and in her mind, I’m sure, nothing is amiss. Still, I’ve had to numb my spirit a bit. Before, Betty was like sunshine to me. Now, I see Betty through dark clouds of concern. Before, we were carefree, and we would hug and dance. Now, I handle her carefully, clinically – she’s become a patient. I had a dream where she could no longer work her jaw or eat, and I ordered her death by lethal injection. As cold as a Roman emperor giving a thumbs-down. I feel like warning Betty to stay away from me. I’m no longer the daddy she knew, the one she trusts and loves. I’ll spirit her off. I’ll chop off her jaw. I’ll have her put to sleep. She can’t imagine the terrible things I could do. So I numb myself and I hope – that the cancer hasn’t spread widely. If it’s spread to her lungs or other organs, there probably isn’t much that can be done. I hope that surgery and radiation will be enough, and even if it isn’t, we can make the best of whatever time we have left together – that’s all any cat and hoomin can do.

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Tak, I’m so sorry to read this. I hope there is something that can be done to help Betty. You and Betty are in my thoughts and prayers. Annie Same here I was sooooo hoping…. Purrs and prayers, good thoughts and hope to you and Betty. I think it’s okay. I don’t want to mourn the living, at least not before I know for sure what we’re dealing with. Right now, Betty is happy and healthy, and in her mind, I’m sure, nothing is amiss. Still, I’ve had to numb my spirit a bit. Before, Betty was like sunshine to me. Now, I see Betty through dark clouds of concern. Before, we were carefree, and we would hug and dance. Now, I handle her carefully, clinically – she’s become a patient. I had a dream where she could no longer work her jaw or eat, and I ordered her death by lethal injection. As cold as a Roman emperor giving a thumbs-down. I feel like warning Betty to stay away from me. I’m no longer the daddy she knew, the one she trusts and loves. I’ll spirit her off. I’ll chop off her jaw. I’ll have her put to sleep. She can’t imagine the terrible things I could do. So I numb myself and I hope – that the cancer hasn’t spread widely. If it’s spread to her lungs or other organs, there probably isn’t much that can be done. I hope that surgery and radiation will be enough, and even if it isn’t, we can make the best of whatever time we have left together – that’s all any cat and hoomin can do.

If only love could cure our cats, then you and Betty would have nothing to worry about. Purrs that the treatment works and Betty has lots of quality time left. — Adrian (Owned by Snoopy & Bagheera) A house is not a home, without a cat. http://community.webshots.com/user/clowderuk

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I got word on Betty’s biopsy results today, and they were as expected, so I’ve gotten a referral, and have been setting up a consult with the veterinary oncology center.

I’m sorry the results were not what you had hoped. I hope Betty has good results with her treatment and you and she have a long life together. Candace

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Tak, don’t underestimate Betty. I truly, honestly with all my heart believe that they *know* when you’re helping them. She won’t blame you. Heartfelt purrs going to you and Betty. Sherry

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Our purrs for Betty’s health through the treatment regimen continue. Dan

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I feel like warning Betty to stay away from me. I’m no longer the daddy she knew, the one she trusts and loves. I’ll spirit her off. I’ll chop off her jaw. I’ll have her put to sleep. She can’t imagine the terrible things I could do.

Cats *do* have a way of knowing when we are working for their good. Harri has always been terrified of strangers. But when I picked her up from the first vet to run her down to the specialist she allowed me to hold her in my arms and didn’t struggle or squirm, even when we were close to other people. She had enough energy that she could have, as she proved when she explored the car all the way to Westminster. She just knew that we were doing something important to her health. And when she was in the hospital, she again knew that the people sticking her with needles and things were doing so for her benefit. When Nancy and I went to visit her on her 2nd night in the hospital had a suction tube running into her chest, IV lines in both paws, and an E collar around her neck. But when I opened her cage door she didn’t hesitate to climb right into my arms and snuggle with me. Sure, the humans she was around were doing awful things to her, but she *knew* that it was all important and that it was all for her benefit. I believe that Betty knows the same about the treatments she will receive in your care.

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -I think it’s okay. I don’t want to mourn the living, at least not before I know for sure what we’re dealing with. Right now, Betty is happy and healthy, and in her mind, I’m sure, nothing is amiss. Still, I’ve had to numb my spirit a bit. Before, Betty was like sunshine to me. Now, I see Betty through dark clouds of concern. Before, we were carefree, and we would hug and dance. Now, I handle her carefully, clinically – she’s become a patient. I had a dream where she could no longer work her jaw or eat, and I ordered her death by lethal injection. As cold as a Roman emperor giving a thumbs-down. I feel like warning Betty to stay away from me. I’m no longer the daddy she knew, the one she trusts and loves. I’ll spirit her off. I’ll chop off her jaw. I’ll have her put to sleep. She can’t imagine the terrible things I could do. So I numb myself and I hope – that the cancer hasn’t spread widely. If it’s spread to her lungs or other organs, there probably isn’t much that can be done. I hope that surgery and radiation will be enough, and even if it isn’t, we can make the best of whatever time we have left together – that’s all any cat and hoomin can do.

I’m so sorry that you and Betty are going through this. Hugs, prayers, mega purrs that the cancer is localized. Purrs and Hugs, Nan

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Tak, I’m so sorry to read this. I hope there is something that can be done to help Betty. You and Betty are in my thoughts and prayers. Annie Same here I was sooooo hoping…. Purrs and prayers, good thoughts and hope to you and Betty. I think it’s okay. I don’t want to mourn the living, at least not before I know for sure what we’re dealing with. Right now, Betty is happy and healthy, and in her mind, I’m sure, nothing is amiss. Still, I’ve had to numb my spirit a bit. Before, Betty was like sunshine to me. Now, I see Betty through dark clouds of concern. Before, we were carefree, and we would hug and dance. Now, I handle her carefully, clinically – she’s become a patient. I had a dream where she could no longer work her jaw or eat, and I ordered her death by lethal injection. As cold as a Roman emperor giving a thumbs-down. I feel like warning Betty to stay away from me. I’m no longer the daddy she knew, the one she trusts and loves. I’ll spirit her off. I’ll chop off her jaw. I’ll have her put to sleep. She can’t imagine the terrible things I could do.

I had to do all kinds of horrible things to her, but her love and trust didn’t waiver in the least. She somehow *knew* I was doing all that because I love her and she didn’t blame me even for a minute. Believe me, Betty will know you love her as much, if not more, than ever before. So I numb myself and I hope – that the cancer hasn’t spread widely. If it’s spread to her lungs or other organs, there probably isn’t much that can be done. I hope that surgery and radiation will be enough, and even if it isn’t, we can make the best of whatever time we have left together – that’s all any cat and hoomin can do.

I know. You do have to numb yourself in order to do what you need to do – otherwise you couldn’t function in order to help your baby. Mega purrs are coming that you’ll have lots and lots of quality time left with Betty. Hugs, CatNipped

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I got word on Betty’s biopsy results today, and they were as expected, so I’ve gotten a referral, and have been setting up a consult with the veterinary oncology center.

(((((((((((Tak))))))))))))) Purrs that the specialists can give Betty a long life with excellent quality of life. Other than that I don’t really know what to say, except that you and Betty are receving lots of purrs from here (and others around the world) and you’ll be in my prayers. — Steve Touchstone, faithful servant of Sammy, Little Bit and Spot with loving memories of Rocky (RB) Home Page: http://www.sirinet.net/~stouchst/index.html Cat Pix: http://www.sirinet.net/~stouchst/animals.html

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I got word on Betty’s biopsy results today, and they were as expected, so I’ve gotten a referral, and have been setting up a consult with the veterinary oncology center.

Sorry to hear this. We join your many cyberfriends all over the world in hoping & purring that Betty can be treated successfully, or if the disease has gone so far that treatment would be too drastic to be undertaken she passes peacefully, painlessly & with dignity. Purrs again Gordon (who ordered that last injection back in February) Bandit, Snowball, Claudius & Raki. In loving memory of Pericles, RB 2.5.2005

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – When I posted my college update, I forgot to put in what has been edging the back of my mind. I won’t be in here as often as before due to all the work for school. So I want to offer up purrs and best wishes for all of you. Tak, I’m so sorry about Miss Betty’s jaw. I hope that it is benign, and that she will be the delight of your heart for a long time to come. I’m thinking about you all, and hoping that everything is wonderful for you. The cats are disgruntled about me not posting for them, but, while they don’t seem to have forgiven me, they haven’t bitten me on the butt yet. Pam S. Thank you for thinking about Betty, Pam. It’s really not selfish to have a life – and you have enough on your plate for maybe two or three lives. I got word on Betty’s biopsy results today, and they were as expected, so I’ve gotten a referral, and have been setting up a consult with the veterinary oncology center.

I’m sorry to hear about Betty’s results. I hope they can help at oncology. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –

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When I posted my college update, I forgot to put in what has been edging the back of my mind. I won’t be in here as often as before due to all the work for school. So I want to offer up purrs and best wishes for all of you. Tak, I’m so sorry about Miss Betty’s jaw. I hope that it is benign, and that she will be the delight of your heart for a long time to come. I’m thinking about you all, and hoping that everything is wonderful for you. The cats are disgruntled about me not posting for them, but, while they don’t seem to have forgiven me, they haven’t bitten me on the butt yet. Pam S. — http://www.mousertails.blogspot.com Mouser Tails: The voyages of the Mouser I’m not bad…I’m just written that way

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.. I got word on Betty’s biopsy results today, and they were as expected, so I’ve gotten a referral, and have been setting up a consult with the veterinary oncology center.

Tak, I’m so sorry to read this. I hope there is something that can be done to help Betty. You and Betty are in my thoughts and prayers. Annie

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.. I got word on Betty’s biopsy results today, and they were as expected, so I’ve gotten a referral, and have been setting up a consult with the veterinary oncology center. Tak, I’m so sorry to read this. I hope there is something that can be done to help Betty. You and Betty are in my thoughts and prayers. Annie

Same here I was sooooo hoping…. Purrs and prayers, good thoughts and hope to you and Betty.

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I got word on Betty’s biopsy results today, and they were as expected, so I’ve gotten a referral, and have been setting up a consult with the veterinary oncology center.

Damn. I’m so sorry. I was hoping it would be better news. Purrs to you and Betty, Tak. Tish

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I got word on Betty’s biopsy results today, and they were as expected, so I’ve gotten a referral, and have been setting up a consult with the veterinary oncology center.

We’re sending lots of healing purrs. — Victor M. Martinez Owned and operated by the Fantastic Seven (TM)

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So sorry to hear this, Tak. Recovery purrs for Betty commencing. Sam, closely supervised and ably assisting in purring by Mistletoe

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – When I posted my college update, I forgot to put in what has been edging the back of my mind. I won’t be in here as often as before due to all the work for school. So I want to offer up purrs and best wishes for all of you. Tak, I’m so sorry about Miss Betty’s jaw. I hope that it is benign, and that she will be the delight of your heart for a long time to come. I’m thinking about you all, and hoping that everything is wonderful for you. The cats are disgruntled about me not posting for them, but, while they don’t seem to have forgiven me, they haven’t bitten me on the butt yet. Pam S. Thank you for thinking about Betty, Pam. It’s really not selfish to have a life – and you have enough on your plate for maybe two or three lives. I got word on Betty’s biopsy results today, and they were as expected, so I’ve gotten a referral, and have been setting up a consult with the veterinary oncology center.

I’m so sorry, Tak. Purrs for the treatment to be successful so that you and Betty can have many more years together. — Britta "There is no snooze button on a cat who wants breakfast." — Unknown Check out pictures of Vino at: http://photos.yahoo.com/badwilson click on the Vino album

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Tak, I’m so sorry to read this. I hope there is something that can be done to help Betty. You and Betty are in my thoughts and prayers. Annie Same here I was sooooo hoping…. Purrs and prayers, good thoughts and hope to you and Betty.

I think it’s okay. I don’t want to mourn the living, at least not before I know for sure what we’re dealing with. Right now, Betty is happy and healthy, and in her mind, I’m sure, nothing is amiss. Still, I’ve had to numb my spirit a bit. Before, Betty was like sunshine to me. Now, I see Betty through dark clouds of concern. Before, we were carefree, and we would hug and dance. Now, I handle her carefully, clinically – she’s become a patient. I had a dream where she could no longer work her jaw or eat, and I ordered her death by lethal injection. As cold as a Roman emperor giving a thumbs-down. I feel like warning Betty to stay away from me. I’m no longer the daddy she knew, the one she trusts and loves. I’ll spirit her off. I’ll chop off her jaw. I’ll have her put to sleep. She can’t imagine the terrible things I could do. So I numb myself and I hope – that the cancer hasn’t spread widely. If it’s spread to her lungs or other organs, there probably isn’t much that can be done. I hope that surgery and radiation will be enough, and even if it isn’t, we can make the best of whatever time we have left together – that’s all any cat and hoomin can do.

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admin — Tue, 12 Jul 2005 00:00:00 +0000

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Philip, you can send euros (readily available at De Nederlansche Bank) in a lovely gift-wrapped box; I think it would be appropriate, kind, and timely. Paypal is always acceptable of course, but it just doesn’t have that same "impression internationale illustrant les raccordements clairs" that one would get if walking into the local Georgia bank with a fistful of ‘contant geld uit Holland’… Unfortunately, money is no issue here, the family in question has more than ample amounts of wealth, but it doesn’t buy everything, obviously. I’m a little bummed out, but it’s ok, I’m getting better at handling it all – what are the choices really? I did do some retail therapy at the Tysons Galleria – got some cool prizes for myself. I had the urge (severe) to get out the Saks charge card and start it smokin’, but resisted…. so difficult! I did buy a lovely Waterman pen in a sort of brown beige pattern (ball-point, twist – hate caps) and it was being discontinued, so I got it for half-price! Yay! There was this one sort of ugly moment, when I looked all around at the obvious finery and thought – yeah, this is kind of cool, but we all will still leave anyway, with none of it, and then what? Evidently I have work to do in this area. Gary

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Appreciate the positive thoughts sent. Checks and money orders are also always appropriate…. J/K Gary Do you take Paypal? P. My aunt has just been discharged from Johns Hopkins to return home to die. I don’t disagree with this decision; she has bone cancer, numerous blood dyscrasias including polycythemia vera, chemo-induced thrombocytopenia (platelet count went down to 2, peaked at 23 after aggressive treatment…) and significant renal and cardiac issues have been present for some time. The very finest doctors were employed/consulted, but they cannot turn a kindly 80 year old lady back in time to when she was young, not even at Johns Hopkins. It is so weird, we had dinner just a month ago, and soon she will be in a box. I will go visit toward the end of the week. I do believe this is the most trying Spring/Summer season I’ve run into in 42 years now. Maybe Fall will bring some fun into life again. Not complaining; my sister had enormous odds against her for even being normal or even living through a subarachnoid hemorrhage via aneurysm burst, and came out intact, save for a scar. It’s just been a very difficult couple of months, and I’m feeling weary. I really think a week or two of pure pleasure away from work would work wonders, but there is no staff right now at my job. My father (aunt’s brother) will drive (my car – it has XM radio, and is comfortable), so I can Xanatize and sleep for the 9 hours… Thank you for listening. Gary Rough patch indeed Gary. No way to make it seem like anything else. You are handling it remarkably well and will be ready for the happy times that are no doubt on the way. (law of averages should kick in) Still – worrying about others is better in it’s way than constantly worrying about ourselves. If i didn’t have a goofy family, constantly moving from one drama to another, what would i have to anguish over ? Sending positive thoughts your way for the days ahead pal. Ma

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Appreciate the positive thoughts sent. Checks and money orders are also always appropriate…. J/K Gary

Do you take Paypal? P. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My aunt has just been discharged from Johns Hopkins to return home to die. I don’t disagree with this decision; she has bone cancer, numerous blood dyscrasias including polycythemia vera, chemo-induced thrombocytopenia (platelet count went down to 2, peaked at 23 after aggressive treatment…) and significant renal and cardiac issues have been present for some time. The very finest doctors were employed/consulted, but they cannot turn a kindly 80 year old lady back in time to when she was young, not even at Johns Hopkins. It is so weird, we had dinner just a month ago, and soon she will be in a box. I will go visit toward the end of the week. I do believe this is the most trying Spring/Summer season I’ve run into in 42 years now. Maybe Fall will bring some fun into life again. Not complaining; my sister had enormous odds against her for even being normal or even living through a subarachnoid hemorrhage via aneurysm burst, and came out intact, save for a scar. It’s just been a very difficult couple of months, and I’m feeling weary. I really think a week or two of pure pleasure away from work would work wonders, but there is no staff right now at my job. My father (aunt’s brother) will drive (my car – it has XM radio, and is comfortable), so I can Xanatize and sleep for the 9 hours… Thank you for listening. Gary Rough patch indeed Gary. No way to make it seem like anything else. You are handling it remarkably well and will be ready for the happy times that are no doubt on the way. (law of averages should kick in) Still – worrying about others is better in it’s way than constantly worrying about ourselves. If i didn’t have a goofy family, constantly moving from one drama to another, what would i have to anguish over ? Sending positive thoughts your way for the days ahead pal. Ma

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Thanks Vicki: I’m sure they will too, it’s that WAITING part that is a real ****** ! LOL. Gary

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My aunt has just been discharged from Johns Hopkins to return home to die. I don’t disagree with this decision; she has bone cancer, numerous blood dyscrasias including polycythemia vera, chemo-induced thrombocytopenia (platelet count went down to 2, peaked at 23 after aggressive treatment…) and significant renal and cardiac issues have been present for some time. The very finest doctors were employed/consulted, but they cannot turn a kindly 80 year old lady back in time to when she was young, not even at Johns Hopkins. It is so weird, we had dinner just a month ago, and soon she will be in a box. I will go visit toward the end of the week. I do believe this is the most trying Spring/Summer season I’ve run into in 42 years now. Maybe Fall will bring some fun into life again. Not complaining; my sister had enormous odds against her for even being normal or even living through a subarachnoid hemorrhage via aneurysm burst, and came out intact, save for a scar. It’s just been a very difficult couple of months, and I’m feeling weary. I really think a week or two of pure pleasure away from work would work wonders, but there is no staff right now at my job. My father (aunt’s brother) will drive (my car – it has XM radio, and is comfortable), so I can Xanatize and sleep for the 9 hours… Thank you for listening. Gary I will be thinking of you, Gary. I am sorry about your aunt. I know what you mean about having bad times. I have had a bad year here and there lately. Things will get better for you. Take care, Vicki

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Appreciate the positive thoughts sent. Checks and money orders are also always appropriate…. J/K Gary

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My aunt has just been discharged from Johns Hopkins to return home to die. I don’t disagree with this decision; she has bone cancer, numerous blood dyscrasias including polycythemia vera, chemo-induced thrombocytopenia (platelet count went down to 2, peaked at 23 after aggressive treatment…) and significant renal and cardiac issues have been present for some time. The very finest doctors were employed/consulted, but they cannot turn a kindly 80 year old lady back in time to when she was young, not even at Johns Hopkins. It is so weird, we had dinner just a month ago, and soon she will be in a box. I will go visit toward the end of the week. I do believe this is the most trying Spring/Summer season I’ve run into in 42 years now. Maybe Fall will bring some fun into life again. Not complaining; my sister had enormous odds against her for even being normal or even living through a subarachnoid hemorrhage via aneurysm burst, and came out intact, save for a scar. It’s just been a very difficult couple of months, and I’m feeling weary. I really think a week or two of pure pleasure away from work would work wonders, but there is no staff right now at my job. My father (aunt’s brother) will drive (my car – it has XM radio, and is comfortable), so I can Xanatize and sleep for the 9 hours… Thank you for listening. Gary Rough patch indeed Gary. No way to make it seem like anything else. You are handling it remarkably well and will be ready for the happy times that are no doubt on the way. (law of averages should kick in) Still – worrying about others is better in it’s way than constantly worrying about ourselves. If i didn’t have a goofy family, constantly moving from one drama to another, what would i have to anguish over ? Sending positive thoughts your way for the days ahead pal. Ma

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As Charlotte Kassell said, in "Finding Joy", it is fascinating how we move in and out, toward and away from joy – so it will surely change before long. Thanks for writing back… G

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My aunt has just been discharged from Johns Hopkins to return home to die. I don’t disagree with this decision; she has bone cancer, numerous blood dyscrasias including polycythemia vera, chemo-induced thrombocytopenia (platelet count went down to 2, peaked at 23 after aggressive treatment…) and significant renal and cardiac issues have been present for some time. The very finest doctors were employed/consulted, but they cannot turn a kindly 80 year old lady back in time to when she was young, not even at Johns Hopkins. It is so weird, we had dinner just a month ago, and soon she will be in a box. I will go visit toward the end of the week. I do believe this is the most trying Spring/Summer season I’ve run into in 42 years now. Maybe Fall will bring some fun into life again. Not complaining; my sister had enormous odds against her for even being normal or even living through a subarachnoid hemorrhage via aneurysm burst, and came out intact, save for a scar. It’s just been a very difficult couple of months, and I’m feeling weary. I really think a week or two of pure pleasure away from work would work wonders, but there is no staff right now at my job. My father (aunt’s brother) will drive (my car – it has XM radio, and is comfortable), so I can Xanatize and sleep for the 9 hours… Thank you for listening. Gary I’m sorry about your aunt but you speak very sensibily about her situation (and it can hurt anyway). I hope that things will brighten up for you, Gary. You’re a very positive, caring and sensible presence here and I want you to be *happy*. Philip Make that a double inn keeper.

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Thanks Sally: I will do the best I can with it all. I hope you make some cool friends at your new venture into the support group. Kindly, Gary

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My aunt has just been discharged from Johns Hopkins to return home to die. I don’t disagree with this decision; she has bone cancer, numerous blood dyscrasias including polycythemia vera, chemo-induced thrombocytopenia (platelet count went down to 2, peaked at 23 after aggressive treatment…) and significant renal and cardiac issues have been present for some time. The very finest doctors were employed/consulted, but they cannot turn a kindly 80 year old lady back in time to when she was young, not even at Johns Hopkins. It is so weird, we had dinner just a month ago, and soon she will be in a box. I will go visit toward the end of the week. I do believe this is the most trying Spring/Summer season I’ve run into in 42 years now. Maybe Fall will bring some fun into life again. Not complaining; my sister had enormous odds against her for even being normal or even living through a subarachnoid hemorrhage via aneurysm burst, and came out intact, save for a scar. It’s just been a very difficult couple of months, and I’m feeling weary. I really think a week or two of pure pleasure away from work would work wonders, but there is no staff right now at my job. My father (aunt’s brother) will drive (my car – it has XM radio, and is comfortable), so I can Xanatize and sleep for the 9 hours… Thank you for listening. Gary Gary, I am so sorry about your aunt. Death is so hard to deal with. I think it’s a good idea to get away and relax a little if you can. It will be good for you. You have this group to vent on. Let us know how your aunt and you are doing. Sally

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Laurie: I think that sounds like a most excellent idea. I’m torn between a trip to Europe (like Switzerland – so lovely there) or a Caribbean thing… My job just lost yet another nurse, so we are down to three clinicians (one PA, one NP and me, oh and there is a physician). Getting vacation time is going to be a bit tricky I think. They are advertising for staff though, so maybe it will improve. Cheers, G

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My aunt has just been discharged from Johns Hopkins to return home to die. I don’t disagree with this decision; she has bone cancer, numerous blood dyscrasias including polycythemia vera, chemo-induced thrombocytopenia (platelet count went down to 2, peaked at 23 after aggressive treatment…) and significant renal and cardiac issues have been present for some time. The very finest doctors were employed/consulted, but they cannot turn a kindly 80 year old lady back in time to when she was young, not even at Johns Hopkins. It is so weird, we had dinner just a month ago, and soon she will be in a box. I will go visit toward the end of the week. I do believe this is the most trying Spring/Summer season I’ve run into in 42 years now. Maybe Fall will bring some fun into life again. Not complaining; my sister had enormous odds against her for even being normal or even living through a subarachnoid hemorrhage via aneurysm burst, and came out intact, save for a scar. It’s just been a very difficult couple of months, and I’m feeling weary. I really think a week or two of pure pleasure away from work would work wonders, but there is no staff right now at my job. My father (aunt’s brother) will drive (my car – it has XM radio, and is comfortable), so I can Xanatize and sleep for the 9 hours… Thank you for listening. Gary Yanno, Gar… if you can break away from reality, I’d be willing to go with you. I’m so very sorry to hear about your aunt. It’s so hard, no matter what age. But selfishly, I can say that through this whole thing with my mom, *I* have been through mortal effin’ hell, so I know how you feel what with your sis, and now your aunt, etc. Go here: http://www.pacific-pictures.com/fiji/index.html Click on Pacific-pictures.com This is where we will go. We can bring an SO, or we can go as friends. If we go as friends, we can bring along another good friend so there will be four of us. (But no more). How about we leave on Dec. 23rd? Christmas on a deserted Fiji island sounds Merry. Cheers, my dear friend…. —

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admin — Sat, 02 Jul 2005 00:00:00 +0000

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My DH put his back out this morning while helping some friends with their luggage as we gave them a lift to the airport ( so has been in bed all day – just got up a few mins ago. Cocoa, my very grumpy and touchy elderly lady, has been sleeping *right* next to him on the bed all the time, purring in time with his snoring and getting up to ‘bouff’ her head on his when he wakes up. What a sweet nursemaid! Meanwhile, in between ministering to the wounded I’ve been enjoying ‘Africa Calling’ at the Eden Project via Real Player: http://www.bbc.co.uk/cornwall/content/articles/2005/06/16/live8_eden_fea ture.shtml ..not only fantastic music in a good cause, but Peter Gabriel into the bargain…yeah ))) Deb. — http://www.scientific-art.com "He looked a fierce and quarrelsome cat, but claw he never would; He only bit the ones he loved, because they tasted good." S. Greenfield

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That is so sweet when they "nursemaid." Hope your DH recovers well and promptly with such excellent nursing. Christine

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My DH put his back out this morning while helping some friends with their luggage as we gave them a lift to the airport ( so has been in bed all day – just got up a few mins ago. Cocoa, my very grumpy and touchy elderly lady, has been sleeping *right* next to him on the bed all the time, purring in time with his snoring and getting up to ‘bouff’ her head on his when he wakes up. What a sweet nursemaid! Meanwhile, in between ministering to the wounded I’ve been enjoying ‘Africa Calling’ at the Eden Project via Real Player: http://www.bbc.co.uk/cornwall/content/articles/2005/06/16/live8_eden_fea ture.shtml ..not only fantastic music in a good cause, but Peter Gabriel into the bargain…yeah ))) Deb. — http://www.scientific-art.com "He looked a fierce and quarrelsome cat, but claw he never would; He only bit the ones he loved, because they tasted good." S. Greenfield

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My friend Kim who is battling cancer recently became foster mother to Bueller, her sister’s cat due to some financial difficulties on her sister’s part. (Bueller is a big sweetie pie who tries to pretend he’s very macho, and now it seems he’s a first-class Nurse Cat.) One day, Kim came home after a shopping trip with her mother, and lay down on the couch for a nap, feeling quite wiped out. She was joined by Bueller who curled up on her chest and started purring as hard as he could. He’s also been spending nights with Kim in her bed. I think he’s trying to apply "Purr Therapy" to her lung tumors. =o) Melissa

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I’m listening to Muse in Paris right now. We are adding our purrs to Cocoa’s for DH’s back to heal soon. What a good nursemaid! — Marina, Frank and Miranda. In loving memory of Nikki. marina (dot) kurten (at) iki (dot) fi Pics at http://uk.pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/frankiennikki/ and http://community.webshots.com/user/frankiennikki

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Purrs for his back to heal quickly. — Joy **Don’t believe everything you think**

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Bless him! They do seem to know when gentleness is needed don;t they. Purrs for Kim’s battle to have a swift, successful outcome. Those purrs have to help! Deb. — http://www.scientific-art.com "He looked a fierce and quarrelsome cat, but claw he never would; He only bit the ones he loved, because they tasted good." S. Greenfield

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That is so sweet when they "nursemaid." Hope your DH recovers well and promptly with such excellent nursing.

Thanks Christine, he seems a bit better this evening. Deb. — http://www.scientific-art.com "He looked a fierce and quarrelsome cat, but claw he never would; He only bit the ones he loved, because they tasted good." S. Greenfield

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I’m listening to Muse in Paris right now. We are adding our purrs to Cocoa’s for DH’s back to heal soon. What a good nursemaid!

Thanks Marina! Caught a fabulous session by Youssou N’Dour and Dido earlier this afternoon at Eden. Wish I had made the effort to try and win tickets and be there now… :-/ Deb. — http://www.scientific-art.com "He looked a fierce and quarrelsome cat, but claw he never would; He only bit the ones he loved, because they tasted good." S. Greenfield

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Purrs for his back to heal quickly.

Thanks Yoj, I wish it would – it’s a recurring weakness ( Deb. — http://www.scientific-art.com "He looked a fierce and quarrelsome cat, but claw he never would; He only bit the ones he loved, because they tasted good." S. Greenfield

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It is so marvellous that even these grumpy old girls can turn themselves into nurse kitties, isn’t it? KFC jumped on my tummy at every opportunity. I had to turn her off because it was too painful. She jumped up again today, it is not exactly comfortable yet, but I let her make biscuits for a few minutes.. They just know somehow. Tweed

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Thanks Marina! Caught a fabulous session by Youssou N’Dour and Dido earlier this afternoon at Eden. Wish I had made the effort to try and win tickets and be there now… :-/

We had a compilation of the different shows on TV here, and I saw the one with Dido and Youssou N’Dour, too. Wonderful! — Marina, Frank and Miranda. In loving memory of Nikki. marina (dot) kurten (at) iki (dot) fi Pics at http://uk.pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/frankiennikki/ and http://community.webshots.com/user/frankiennikki

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My friend Kim who is battling cancer recently became foster mother to Bueller, her sister’s cat due to some financial difficulties on her sister’s part. (Bueller is a big sweetie pie who tries to pretend he’s very macho, and now it seems he’s a first-class Nurse Cat.) One day, Kim came home after a shopping trip with her mother, and lay down on the couch for a nap, feeling quite wiped out. She was joined by Bueller who curled up on her chest and started purring as hard as he could. He’s also been spending nights with Kim in her bed. I think he’s trying to apply "Purr Therapy" to her lung tumors. =o) Bless him! They do seem to know when gentleness is needed don;t they. Purrs for Kim’s battle to have a swift, successful outcome. Those purrs have to help! Deb. — http://www.scientific-art.com "He looked a fierce and quarrelsome cat, but claw he never would; He only bit the ones he loved, because they tasted good." S. Greenfield

Alas, Kim needs all the purrs that can be spared. She’s a determined fighter, but she’s facing some scary odds. She’s already gone through a year of chemo and radiation in 2004, until last November when her cancer stopped responding to the treatments. Then she had a stem cell transplant over last Christmas which was initially successful. But the Hodgkins was back less than four months later. Because of the transplant, her bone marrow can’t withstand an adult-strength course of chemo, and the cancer seems pretty aggressive. THey’re hoping her sister will be a good stem cell match for her, once they boost Kim’s strength a bit so that she can go through yet another stem cell transplant. But her treatment options are rather limited. But Bueller apparently feels he has to take responsibility for Kim’s care, since medical science is of limited help to her. The kicker is, she’s not yet 30. Life is stinking unfair, sometimes. Melissa

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Poor Kim! I’m so glad to hear she has a nurse cat to take such good care of her. Lots of purrs and best wishes for Kim to recover completely, — Polonca & Soncek

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Lots of purrs for your DH’s back from Soncek too, and best wishes from me, — Polonca & Soncek

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I made 9 rules to happier life

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if your interested in seeing what they are let me know. and leave your email, thanks. I think it can change lives really. About the size of 3/4 of page it sums up the most universal things people need to get to happier place. This would not only work for people who are unhappy but for societies as well. I do believe this is easy , simple read and not based on mind control or unreasonable conclusions or blame. its based on positive universal spirit of doing the right things.

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rules of better Life or suggestions of good intention based on unhappy life that is evolving to happiness 1. Always try your best to do the right thing because it just might be the universal conclusion that the good survive the happiest. They might not always win but the good way is the only way to get to best places in life. 2. Always try to perceive someone elses pain and wonder how or why things can improve, even try to help…. if the pain is based on people trying with good intentions 3. There are different phases in people lives but there are some universal truths that everyone should know about some are a.No matter how bad it seems to be there usually is a better tomorrow .Good families and LOVE give kids a chance to experience life without the pain of unnourished formations of the brain or unsucessful expectations and waste of time from acting out, Kids who act out as adults may just be a direct result of dysfunctional family and well might not be at fault but society has to protect itself anyway. Change can happen if people help see kids who come from dysfunctional lives as powerful in changing their future. Still at some point one has to fight evil and protect society even from people who know no better or know better and chooses to do wrong things. 4. Anxiety and illness often is a direct result of stress in environment or physical condition or being in people from not eating correctly or not doing right behaviors. its almost like an emotional cancer..If there are things weighing on peoples minds or bodies they cannot be expected to perform or act in unison with succesful society. Thus often people need a good listener or better lifestyle or ways to counter anxiety . …somebody who won’t judge to talk to . Anxiety without successful treatment ( no drugs) begest more anxiety and worse problems. Most problems in the world I believe come from problems in peoples lives that people feel powerless to change and leads to making wrong and fast wrong decisions and conclusions. Just think if a leader has anxiety and makes a decision that is equivalent to someone acting out. Thats how dangerous the world is today 5. Religion is helpful in forming correct correlations in doing the right thing if its based on good concepts. Religion should never be about revenge or blaming other religions It should be about doing right things ( perhaps based on love?). 6. Finally, the goal in life is to be happy and have love. If your not on that track you need to start finding ways to get there. My concept of conquering anxeity and problems in world is simple and is doable and its based on holistic principles I outlined here. Relationships based only on fast sex and or control rarely lead long lasting love.Children produced this way suffer endlessly. 7. World with clean air and good foods and exercise and NOT of control and lies and concentration of wealth and drugs will help change people to successful lives more then anything else. . A world where we help others less fortunate empower themselves . A world where each person and religion is respected as long as its based on love and acceptance of everyone. 8. If your not part of the solution, your part of the problem. Everyone should see life as a journey. Everyone might not get to happy place as fast as they like but if they follow universal principles I believe everyone should know they will get happy. Sometimes the journey of pain makes people humble and help them see better way . Eventually most journeys that are consistentin right direction turn into good journeys. One might not be happy even in good journeys but its better then acting out or feeling ueselss or hopeless. My contention is that eventually good journeys turn to happiness. 9. Consistency is one of the biggest keys in life especially to people who are use to all or nothing or acting out. Sometimes making one understand that results come from doing the right things down the line and not necessarily immediately has major rewards. 10,People who choose to look away at helping others with good intentions are in a way insulting the will of nature . – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – if your interested in seeing what they are let me know. and leave your email, thanks. I think it can change lives really. About the size of 3/4 of page it sums up the most universal things people need to get to happier place. This would not only work for people who are unhappy but for societies as well. I do believe this is easy , simple read and not based on mind control or unreasonable conclusions or blame. its based on positive universal spirit of doing the right things.

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